Thursday, December 2, 2010

Accomplishments

AutismLearningFelt

How appropriate that today’s Blog Hop topic is accomplishments because today was Will’s IEP meeting. He has done well this year.  He’s now reading at approximately a third grade level, up from first last year.  His spelling is third grade level (but he’s a better speller than Jake and Lizzy!).  He took a year to get the concept of numbers using the Touch Math Curriculum but now has mastered single digit addition and subtraction and has almost mastered double digit addition.  He moved into a higher academic level group and is doing well.  And he did this in a two-to-one!   

Honestly, maybe his greatest accomplishment to date is being able to move from a one-to-one to a two-to-one!  I wanted him in a two-to-one because as I told his teachers – there was no one-to-one fairy that would magically show up at our door when he was 21!  I needed him to function in a group.

We worked really hard on Will being able to handle being a group and not receiving individual instruction.  When he started taking classes at MyGym I had to stand one foot in front of him and say “do this” and show him what to do.  He bolted constantly.  He couldn’t jump, and barely listened to the instructions.  I took him twice a week for a couple of years.  I wanted him to function in a group!  Every week I tried to back away a little more.  I gave him as much independence as I could.  I choose independence over “perfection” of movement.  And now when I see him swinging his arms back and forth rather than in a circle I’m usually watching him from the bench.

Wow, look at me waxing on poetically about my boy.  This might as well be a Christmas Letter bragging about my kids.  I sometimes write those – but in them, usually I just list the places that Will didn’t wear pants.

9 comments:

Lynn said...

I want on your Christmas card list!!! Seriously, those are some awesome accomplishments..you are sooo right about functioning in a group. Good for Will!

Stacie said...

Those are fantastic accomplishments. He sounds like he is really doing well at school too. Thanks for joining in the blog hop.

Big Daddy Autism said...

Please send me your next Christmas letter. The ones I get do not have enough lists of where their kids have been with no pants

dotcomkari said...

Those are fantastic accomplishments! you must be a proud mommy! it sounds like he is doing wonderful in school!

JoyMama said...

I agree with Big Daddy. I treasure the Christmas letters that make me laugh out loud!

It's so nice when an IEP meeting brings a review of forward progress -- the move to 2-on-1 is HUGE! (blog hop)

@jencull (jen) said...

That is great progress, well done:) I too want to see one of those letters:) Jen

http://www.thekingandeye.com/p/special-needs-blog-hop.html

Dani G said...

Sign me up for one of those pants-less christmas letters!!

Here's my special needs blog hop post: http://www.imjustthatway.com/2010/12/special-needs-blog-hop-accomplishments.html

Life as the mother of 4 said...

I'm now feeling some pressure to write a Christmas letter. Thanks for the high fives!

Tammy said...

He's doing great. And you are right, it is beneficial if our children can work in a group setting. My 11yo son has always hovered on the outside of groups, but is now starting to interact within groups.

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